At Secondmatchwe protect you from fraudulent people. Here are some of the points that you must remember or keep in mind when choosing your true life partner.
-
Don't give someone your full name and address until you are comfortable to do so.
- Be cautious while communicating, but stay honest. Honesty is surely the best policy in a relationship.
- Try to answer all emails you receive, even if just to say, "thank you, but I don't think we have much in common.
-
Treat others how you would like to be treated.
-
Women are more vulnerable to getting fooled, so all you females out there, be extra careful!
-
Take your time and get to know someone via email and chat before you accept a first meeting.
-
If you want to talk to your partner, use a cell phone to communicate. Avoid using your home phone.
-
If you start feeling uncomfortable at any point, stop communicating. There’s no point wasting your time on someone who doesn’t seem worthwhile.
-
Talk on the phone before meeting up.
-
Keep your family involved and make sure you introduce the prospect to your family.
-
Ask lots of questions and establish as much common ground as you can before you meet up - it will make conversation easier.
-
Check prospects reference.
-
If you are both cool with each other, good for you…now you feel you want to meet up…even better. Start making a plan of how you will be meeting your mate.
-
Don’t start off by disclosing your past relationships. It will leave a bad impression.
-
Relax and enjoy the experience. Don’t be indecisive, if you feel uncomfortable; tell firmly that you do not wish to meet again. Don’t put yourself at risk.
- Agree to meet only when you are ready or with your parents.
- If you start feeling afraid after meeting your date, move out of that place calmly. Don’t show your nervousness and make an excuse to get away.
- If things are working out smoothly as planned, set up a date for your next meeting.
- Before meeting, tell your family members or friend where you're going.
-
Meet in a public place, where you feel comfortable and at ease.
-
Watch your drinks on meeting and if you can, arrange to meet at the venue and have a transport plan in place for getting home safely.
-
Do not reveal too much too soon.
-
Don’t give any credit card numbers or bank account numbers.
-
Have a few phone conversations before you meet. Try making your parents to call their parents.
-
Make sure you see a photo - at least one - before you meet face to face.
-
Try to agree on an easy meeting place so you can easily recognise each other.
-
Read your Prospects profile before you head out and try and remember a few key things in their profile.
-
After finishing off, if you feel you are being followed, take public transport and go to any other place, apart from your home
Please inform Secondmatchif you see any fraudulent profile. You should report violation if some one keeps you harassing. Secondmatchwill take necessary action against that fraudulent profile
Report violation by sending mail on info@Secondmatch.com
Note: when reporting violation you must reveal your identity. Your identity will be kept confidential.
Better Search Tips
Searching your life partner is not an easy task nowadays. Secondmatch helps you how you can find your partner to get married or how to search better.
-
When creating your profile please complete all the fields as this provide information of your’s to other member’s what you are.
-
Do create your partner preference so that other member’s who are searching you knows the kind of person you are looking for.
-
Add all your Photos. As photo is the most important part when someone like you. Photo is the first impression when someone searches your profile. If they don’t find your photo on your profile they just might close your profile.
-
If you feel unsecured about adding your photo online, Secondmatchgives you photo privacy option from where you can select to whom you don’t want to see your photos.
-
Most people prefer contacting you only when you have added your true genuine contact number or validated phone number. Add you recent phone or the phone where people can handle your matrimonial queries.
-
When you like someone don’t disclose your contact number until you are not fully satisfied.
-
Do include your parents/brothers/sisters/friends while conversation.
-
When you find some one fix a meeting with their parents or talk over phone first.
These are the major points to be taken in mind when searching your life partner.